Sunday, October 16, 2005

Help Give A Heart

I recieved this e-mail and wanted to help pass it along. This isn't for your reading pleasure. i'm posting so that you might give. Thank you.

A fellow dad needs our help. His name is Leo Akins, and seven years ago he lost his oldest son, Leo Jr. to a rare heart disease. “There were lots of nights I would hold his little body upright against me just so he could breathe,” Leo says.

After a long battle, their precious little son (age 7) died in his daddy’s arms.

Life continued, and Leo and his wife were assured by doctors that the disease would not affect their other son or any children they would have in the future.

Four years later, they found Lyndon (age 8), lying blue on the floor. Leo administered CPR, eventually reviving him, as the paramedics arrived and whisked him off to the hospital. It was determined that Lyndon had the same disease that had killed his brother.

“Every night for a long time, I slept on the floor next to Lyndon’s bed,” Leo said. “I was afraid he would die in his sleep, and I wouldn’t be there to help him.” While Little Leo had always looked sick, Lyndon was the picture of a healthy 8-year-old. But, six months later after a normal day at home, Lyndon died. For the second time, Leo held his son and helplessly watched him slip away.

“Dads are supposed to be the hero,” he told me flatly. “But I couldn’t stop this. All I do is watch my children die and put them in the ground, and then they don’t come home to their beds ever again. That’s not much of a hero.”

“I don’t look at family videos or photographs...and everything feels gray,” Leo said. “I was just starting to enjoy life again when we got the news about Leighton.”

This past April, Leighton (age 5) was tested and found to have the same killer disease. “My fan club is getting smaller,” Leo adds. “I know I’m supposed to treasure every day...but I fear them.”

But this time there’s hope. Leighton is at the top of the list for a heart transplant. In fact, Leo and his wife Lisa could get the phone call today, which would whisk them off to Indianapolis so Leighton can receive a new heart and a shot at a normal life.

A heart transplant is incredibly expensive and the Akins’s finances are max’d out. “I just finished paying off Lyndon’s funeral,” he said. “Insurance will cover the transplant, if everything goes according to plan, and about a month in the hospital. But after that, it’s up to us to pay the remainder.”

I could see the burden in Leo’s face as he painted their financial picture. The way he figures it, they’re going to need about $65,000.00 the first year after the surgery to meet Leighton’s needs. Many have volunteered to have bake sales, garage sales, and art auctions to help raise the money, but they still need much more.

Dad, it’s time for us to step up to the plate and help this fellow dad who has buried two of his sons and faces an uncertain future. I’m asking you to put yourself in his shoes, picture your children dying in your arms, and then give.

I’m not talking $10 or $25 (unless that’s all you can do); I’m talking about giving $100, $500, $1000, or $10,000 as God has blessed you. Let’s help this dad. He needs us.

Make your tax-deductible gift to Leighton Akins at www.COTA.org Above all, pray for this dad and his family!!! Someone may come up and thank you in heaven someday for giving him a new heart.

To read more and see photos of Leo and his family, go to http://familymanweb.com/yydhome.htm

Tuesday, October 11, 2005

OK This Is Funny!

I don't know if this is real, but it is really funny.

Enjoy!

http://www.chumfm.com/MorningShow/bits/march24.swf

Friday, October 07, 2005

Proud Moment

The girls are doing really good with their schooling, but the school year didn't start out like that. Becca was giving Kari a hard time with wanting to do her work. Finally after talking with Becca she told me that the reason was that "it" was boring. So Kari and I talked and looked at our options and tried a new aproach. First we didn't stick to the "official" lesson plan. Then we gave her more advanced work and used more hands on and verbal exercises and it's like we have a new child. She's doing great! In fact, last night we went out to eat and on her mat she drew a picture of a house and a pool in the back yard and then she drew a sign with an arrow with the sentance, "This way to pool." And then tonight Kari had to run into the store so the girls and I sat in the car. We had just left the library, so the girls were looking at their books and I asked Becca what she picked out. She had "Green Eggs and Ham". She then proceded to open the book and begin to read to me. The first 20 pages, before Kari got back, and I only had to help her with two words. I was so proud of her. Kimmi of course is quite sharp. She loves doing worksheets and is often upset when she runs out.

later...